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 THE BAD START TO OUR MARRIAGES.

DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm Al-khamis, 1st day of Jumaadal Uulaa 1447AH, Thursday, 23rd October, 2025.

 BismilLah.


We all know the importance of marriage in Islam. I believe everyone wants to find the right partner to be their companion but have you both decided how to Islamically get married to please ALLAH Azzawajal? Well if both don't plan well to please ALLAH, you will end up planning to please Satan as many do today especially in Africa. We start dating and sleeping with each other before the marriage as the man wants to taste/try her first, Astaghfirullah,  that's haraam my dear brothers and especially sisters, why do you make yourself so cheap to a man? Even if he intends to marry you, he must wait till after the marriage that's to respect your dignity and seek ALLAH'S support. If he can't wait till after marriage please show him the red card for ALLAH sake and ALLAH will provide a better brother for you. 


Secondly, my other worry is how marriages are organised today. Why haraam music? Why inter-mixing dancing in public? Why are you wearing the kuffar wedding dress showing off your chest, hands, neck etc? Don't you know all these are disobedience to ALLAH? If you know then why are you starting something halaal with haraam activities? Why are you blaming your grandmother etc for your marriage problems whilst you started it wrongly? Please NOTE: He who displeases ALLAH for seeking the pleasure of people, ALLAH is displeased with him and those people are also displeased, for pleasing whom he had earned ALLAH'S displeasure. And he who pleases ALLAH, although by it he displeased people, ALLAH is pleased with him, and also those people whom he had displeased for pleasing ALLAH become pleased with him. 


May ALLAH Azzawajal keep guiding us all, forgive our shortcomings and keep protecting us from any satanic influences. Aameen.

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