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 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm athalaatha, 20th day of Muharram 1447AH, Tuesday, 15th July 2025.

CAUSES OF RAMPANT DIVORCE IN OUR CONTEMPORARY MARRIAGES. Bismillah.


My dear brothers and sisters in Islam, the subject which I would like to share with you today has been a matter of grave concern to all Muslims, when I look at the Muslim Ummah in the world today and try to project upon the future, it get me frustrated as to the direction our offsprings coming will be going through.


As a husband, your wife MUST be your best friend, your companion in life, your sister in deen and regularly pray that ALLAH Azzawajal bless your daughters and sons to have a good husband better than us and a good wife better than the mother. Ask yourself how your relationship with your wife or husband that your children are learning from. 


Let's note that a strong community is made of its’ units, and the unit of a strong community is a strong family but I have been appalled at the rate of divorce among Muslims today. Moreover, I realise that there is so much confusion about the issue of divorce, amongst lay Muslims, and even amongst Islamic Leadership in many Islamic Centres. It's now like a game where men and women jump from one men/women to the other as if we are not accountable for it when we die. Let's fear ALLAH Azzawajal because marriage is a trust from ALLAH Azzawajal and we will be answerable to ALLAH for our actions in our marriages. 


I have realised that there are lots of causes which can be pointed at, which have contributed to this rising incidence of divorce amongst Muslims but in Shaa ALLAH, we will remind each other about the most important cause in tomorrow's reminder. To be continued.......


We ask ALLAH Azzawajal to protect us from any satanic influences that can lead us to divorcing our loved ones. Aameen.

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