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 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawmul Ahad. 18th day of Dhul-Qa'adah, 1445AH (Sunday 26th May 2024).

 HUGE DOWRIES/MAHAR, AN OBSTACLE TO MARRIAGE, WHAT ARE THE SOLUTIONS? Bismillah


Let's continue from the reminder yesterday;

We all know that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) enjoined young men who can afford it to get married, yet Islam did not neglect to give advice to those who cannot afford it as such do not base on the mistakes of some parents to start committing Zina. We are advised in the Qur’an to maintain chastity, and are advised in the Sunnah to fast, so as to attain taqwa (piety, mindfulness of ALLAH) that will protect us from committing haraam actions and teach us good manners and behaviour. Marriage and having children are only Sunnah but obligatory for those who can afford but remaining chaste or total obedience to ALLAH is obligatory on us without any excuses to fall into any disobedience. 


It was narrated that ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ood said: We were with the Prophet (blessings and peace of ALLAH be upon him) when we were young and had nothing with which to get married. The Messenger of ALLAH   (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to us: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one’s chastity. And whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.”

Narrated by al-Bukhaari (4779) and Muslim (1400). So Alhamdulillah we've got solutions in Islam for whatever situations we find ourselves as such let's explore that through studying our deen. To be continued in Shaa Allah. May ALLAH keep guiding us all and grant our brothers and sisters good partners. Aameen.

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