THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaum As-Sabt, 7th day of Rabi-ul Aakhir. (Saturday, 13th of November 2021). HOW DO YOU CHOOSE YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE?. BismilLah.

Let's finalise on our topic above;
Getting someone to help:
Marriage is not something to throw yourself into all by yourself. Getting the help of someone, especially parents, relatives, an Imam, and/or respected and trustworthy members of the Muslim community to either look for the right spouse or initiate and participate in a communication process is very important.

For those blessed with Muslim parents, remember that they are probably your best allies and helpers in seeking the right husband or wife. They have known you all of your life, and have your best interest at heart.

However, parents must be open and attentive to what their children are looking for, and never forget the element of choice. Ultimately, it is their son or daughter who is going to make the final decision. They must never become too pushy or aggressive, whether this pressure is being applied on their own son or daughter, or on the person she/he is interested in.

Parents recommendations Should be considered seriously to add more Blessings to the Marriage if their recommendations is based on the good attitude of the person. Never ignore your parents because of someone you've just met. Obedience and kindness to Parents is compulsory upon us than even the Marriage so to make them sad because of the Marriage is the beginning of your Marriage disaster. May ALLAH aid us through our efforts to marry Rightours muslims. Aameen.