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THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaum Al-Khamis, 14th day of Rabi-ul Awwal. (Thursday, 21st of October 2021). CARING FOR OUR WIVES MUST BE A PRIORITY OF EVERY HUSBAND. BismilLaah.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of ALLAH be upon him) regarded being kind to one's family as being the criterion with regard to who is best in Islam. Whoever wants to be one of the best of the Muslims should be kind to his family, which includes being kind to one’s wife, children and relatives. 

The Prophet (peace and blessings of ALLAH be upon him) said: “You will never spend anything seeking thereby the Face of ALLAH, but you will be rewarded for it, even (the food) that you put in your wife’s mouth.” Narrated by al-Bukhari, 56. 

ALLAH created women perfectly and they all have good qualities as well as bad behaviors. It's a duty of each husband to ensure you get the best behavior out of your wife. There is nothing like bad wife. If your wife have change to be bad, then blame yourself not her. If you treat her well, care for her, have time for her, make her feel like there is no other thing better than her then naturally you would get the best out of her. Let me end this reminder by advising that, treat your wife the way you will prefer someone to treat your daughter when she grow and get married. If you treat someone's daughter badly then be prepared for ALLAH'S revenge on your life. Our wives are our companions in life not our maidservants or slaves. But sisters, please be patient,  respectful and obedient to your husband and in shaaALLAH you will also get the best from him. May ALLAH keep guiding us all and increases us in beneficial knowledge. Aameen.

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