THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaum As-Sabt. 18th day of Jumaadal Awwal. (Saturday 2nd January 2021).

A UNIQUE ROLE TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY AT HOME IN RETURN FOR PARADISE. BismilLah. 

We all know in Islam that marriage is an act of worship and managing your marriage well can easily earn you PARADISE especially our sisters. 

The task of a wife is to maintain and take care of a husband. It is not an easy undertaking. Those women, who are unaware of this feature of their role, may find difficulty in fulfilling the task. It is a job for the woman who is aware that the job requires a degree of sagacity, style, and ingenuity. For a woman to be a successful wife, she should win over her husband's heart and be a source of comfort to him.

She should encourage him to do good deeds while dissuading him from bad ones. She should also provide adequate measures to maintain his health and well-being. The results of her efforts are directed towards making the man into a kind and respected husband who would be a proper guardian for his family, and a good father from whom the children would seek guidance and respect. ALLAH, the All-Knowing has endowed woman with extraordinary power. The prosperity and happiness as well as the misery of the family are in her hands.

A woman can turn the home into a lofty paradise or a burning hell. She can lead her husband to the peak of success or the dregs of misfortune. 

The woman with the qualities bestowed on her by ALLAH, who is aware of her role as a spouse, can elevate her husband to a respected man even if he had been the lowest of all men.

"One learned scholar wrote: 'Women possess a strange power in that they are able to acquire whatever they desire'."

In Islam, taking care of one's husband has an important position. It has been equated to the role of Jihad (holy war in the path of ALLAH). "Imam Ali (a.s) stated: 'The Jihad of a woman is to take care of her husband well'." Allahu Akbar. So sisters, please do your best purely for ALLAH sake seeking PARADISE as your rewards. Ensure you win his heart to the home by dressing decently all the time, ensure your hair is well maintained all the time, speak with respect and be submissive never be aggressive as that's not the nature of a woman. For my brothers, your care, actions etc can easily earn you all the above qualities from your wife but make a mistake that you are the boss, you will loose all these and your home will become a place of hell. May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect our marriages from any satanic influences. Aameen