DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaum Al-Ithnayn, 26th day of Rabeeu' Athaani (Monday 23rd of December, 2019).
MARRIED COUPLE MUST AVOID ARGUING. BismilLah.
Undoubtedly a great deal of criticism and arguing in marriage is something negative that undermines harmony, love and damages the marriage and children's mind set. Married couple must reduce that as much as possible, and to show restraint; each of us should force ourselves to be patient with the other and to avoid issues of arguments as sheitan is the winner at the end.
Our Beloved messenger of ALLAH sallallahu alaihi wasallam has advised that we must avoid arguing even if we are at the right side of the story. Argument is a tool which sheitan uses to damage relationship which is the number one of his priorities.
Any human being COULD NOT be free of faults or shortcomings, because that is part of human nature, especially women, whose basic nature the Prophet (blessings and peace of ALLAH be upon him) has told us about, and said that there is no hope of changing her nature completely.
It was narrated from Samurah ibn Jundub that the Messenger of ALLAH (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said:
“Woman was created from a rib; if you try to straighten her you will break her. So be kind to her and you will live with ease with her.” Narrated by Ahmad (20093) and Ibn Hibbaan (4178); classed as saheeh by our Sheikh al-Albaani. What is well-established in psychology, and what is known from experience, is that stubbornness and arguing with a partner who is not patient with lengthy discussions and arguments will only result in bad consequences for the marriage and will increase resentment between the spouses. So it's important both partners avoid any form of argument especially infront of children if any or in front of any other people regardless of who they are.
May ALLAH keep guiding our eemaan and protect our Marriages from any satanic influences. Aameen.
MARRIED COUPLE MUST AVOID ARGUING. BismilLah.
Undoubtedly a great deal of criticism and arguing in marriage is something negative that undermines harmony, love and damages the marriage and children's mind set. Married couple must reduce that as much as possible, and to show restraint; each of us should force ourselves to be patient with the other and to avoid issues of arguments as sheitan is the winner at the end.
Our Beloved messenger of ALLAH sallallahu alaihi wasallam has advised that we must avoid arguing even if we are at the right side of the story. Argument is a tool which sheitan uses to damage relationship which is the number one of his priorities.
Any human being COULD NOT be free of faults or shortcomings, because that is part of human nature, especially women, whose basic nature the Prophet (blessings and peace of ALLAH be upon him) has told us about, and said that there is no hope of changing her nature completely.
It was narrated from Samurah ibn Jundub that the Messenger of ALLAH (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said:
“Woman was created from a rib; if you try to straighten her you will break her. So be kind to her and you will live with ease with her.” Narrated by Ahmad (20093) and Ibn Hibbaan (4178); classed as saheeh by our Sheikh al-Albaani. What is well-established in psychology, and what is known from experience, is that stubbornness and arguing with a partner who is not patient with lengthy discussions and arguments will only result in bad consequences for the marriage and will increase resentment between the spouses. So it's important both partners avoid any form of argument especially infront of children if any or in front of any other people regardless of who they are.
May ALLAH keep guiding our eemaan and protect our Marriages from any satanic influences. Aameen.
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