DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaum As-Sabt, 15th day of Muharram (Saturday 14th September, 2019). Recommended ways in choosing a wife in Islam. This is my own recommendations base on my little studies about the sunnah way of choosing a wife in particular. BismilLaah.

Instead of sinning by indulging into so called dating or trying to put stress on yourself with excuse of securing a good wife through getting to know her, we must First of all concentrate on building our own life in such a way that we have basic knowledge of Islam expecially getting to know our responsibilities as Muslims, how to offer our salaat etc and then know our responsibilities as husband. We must then concentrate in finding a regular income through working in halaal means by choosing halal job courses in our studies instead of choising any carrier path just bcs we want to be university graduates. Living in a secular state we must avoid couses like banking and finance to avoid working in western banks which is haraam due to intetrest based transactions they offer. We must choose courses like nursing, teaching etc and finally secure medium term accomodation to accommodate our wife(s), then you can start the process of finding a partner. Don't waste your time during your studies period with any man or woman whiles you are not ready for marriage else you end up disobeying ALLAH and inviting sheitan to take control of your life.

In finding the right partner you must involve your relatives and friends to find and recommend a good practicing sister with knowledge of the deen even if basic but as a major priority. Avoid marrying any lady who doesn't have Islamic knowledge and doesn't practice properly unless if she is ready to enroll herself for Islamic studies for sometime before the marriage. Ensure you attracted to her. Research about her family background that they are good natured family etc.

After looking and finding possible target to be your near future wife you can openly approach them Islamically by arranging to meet her either through her friends or relatives or directly to them in an open environment and officially inform her that you've done a research on her and interested in marrying her. If she already know you and like the news she can authorise you to see her parents or if she doesn't know you much she can request time to undertake her own research on you to help her agree to your proposals or to disagree and encourage sisters to do that before accepting any proposals. If agreed then you can appoint some of your relatives including yourself to arrange a visit to her family to officially seek her in marriage from her parents or guardians. If they agree then you can offer your gift to the sister and also offer some money to the family towards the marriage ceremony and announcement to the community and a date can then be suggested to the family for the marriage. Trust me that if anyone follow these steps will never regret and with dua the marriage will be made in Jannah as well in shaa ALLAH meaning if we follow sunnah way the love will grow during the marriage, during child birth etc. ALLAH knows best. You can ask any questions please. We ask ALLAH to purify our hearts and protect us from any satanic influences. Aameen.