THIRD REMINDER. Yaumul Ahad 10th day of Shawwal (Sunday, 24th June). *_MOST IMPORTANT QUALITY OF A MAN OR WOMAN AS AN IDEAL LIFE PARTNER_*. *_SECRETE FOR BROTHERS AND ESPECIALLY FOR SISTERS TO NOTE_*. BismilLahir Rahmaanir Raheem. Let's continue from the first and second reminders. Please request for a copy if you couldn't receive any. When a wife becomes submissive before her husband in humility, the man will automatically bow his heart before her, and love her sincerely. I tell you that every true man does not need sex as a priority, but submissive nature type. It is submission that truly makes you a romantic wife. So be the African queen you want to be but when it comes to dealing with your husband, play the role of a humble maid. Don't forget that it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to hijack their mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen and be his maid also. Aside all these, if any of the two has no Eemaan through knowledge of Islam, then it's like building a house on the desert. According to Sheikh Bashir Nyando in Accra Ghana, under 6 months out of around 300 marriages in Nima, Accra Ghana alone, only about 50 remained active and am sure if you look very close your own neighborhood you will notice the same Astaghfirullah just bcs brothers/sisters just marry for the wrong reasons and without any sincerity and fear of ALLAH. *_I wish you all the best as you submit in your relationships and marriage and I pray that may ALLAH grant submissive and caring husbands and wives to those who are willing to marry_*. Aameen.