THIRD REMINDER. Yaumul Jumuat, 7th day of Jumaadal Aakhir (Friday, 23rd February). BOY/GIRL RELATIONSHIP, THE HIDDEN HARD TRUTH. BismilLah. Let's continue from the first and second reminder; this one is a bit long so forgive me but enjoy it with passion. A very strange excuse mostly given by sisters is that marriage is not about rush. WHEN YOU RUSH, YOU WILL CRUSH’….SubhaanAllah!! If indeed you know the implications of what you are saying in the sight of Allah, you would have started crying and seek for forgiveness. The messenger of ALLAH sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam said, a woman that trained two daughters and they get married, ALLAH assures her with Jannah. This hadith Simple means that, you can either increase the chances of your mother being assured of Jannah, than better have a change of mind. Those of you sisters who keep writing on social media that you love your mother, then show her more love by getting married. Give her the pride she so deserve, either she is dead or alive. How many of sisters reading this have their mothers in the grave, and you still think you are not In a rush? When you say you are not in a rush, what that means is that, you think the messenger of ALLAH was wrong when he said we should hurriedly marry the bachelors among us for that will prevent vices in the society and brings Allah’s mercy. SubhaanAllah! I have been a witness to so many cases of sisters who claimed they were not in a rush for marriage. Today, Allah has also halted them and no man is in the rush to marry them. The beauty is gradually fading away. Majority of them have their first degrees, some with masters and even PhD and some are even workers but NO ONE is just coming for their hands in marriage. A high percentage of them simple thought they were not in any rush for marriage and busy accomulating certificates and money and can hardly recite the Qur'an and today, they are paying for their actions. One of them actually encouraged me to write this piece. If you don’t rush to complete half of your deen, then Allah will also not be in any rush to bless all the certificates you are piling up. My dear sister, don’t get deceived by Shaitan, follow the instruction of the messenger of Allah before you begin to regret it. Another unwise and quite disgusting excuse from Muslim brothers is that, ‘I am yet to furnish my apartment or get a permanent paying job before I can settle down’. SubhaanAllah! Do you realise the harm you are causing yourself? How many times do you have the silly thought of having the opposite sex by your side and the feeling for fantasizing. It is by all standard advisable for one to have a decent place as shelter, but you needn’t acquire everything to get married. Getting married does not in any way means one should start procreation outright, NO. So start the process, talk to the sister and go ahead to knock. Introduce yourself to her parents or those in charge of her affairs and then put your trust in ALLAH. THIS PART KEPT ME THINKING!!! I read an hadith of rasullullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam wherein he said “ IT IS FORBIDDEN FOR A WOMAN TO MENSTRUATE MORE THAN SIX TIMES IN HER FATHER’S HOUSE”. This means that a woman’s seventh menstrual cycle should be in her husband’s house. How many sisters are gradually inching to menopause but still think marriage isn’t a matter of rush. This is seriously frightening brothers and sisters. Brothers, please lets help our sisters to come out of this situation. Lets make our minds up to marry our sisters. Lets begin to revive the Sunnah of the messenger of Allah. Marriage is Sunnah. If the sister is mindful of Allah and you know it, go ahead and marry her and put your trust in Allah If the brother reminds you of Allah and about your deen, go ahead and marry him and put your trust in Allah. Marriage is a must now…….death is not sparing the young ones either!!!! Think!!!!!! A reminder especially for myself to begin with.... Unbiasedness D' Ultimate Copied. May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect us from any satanic influences. Aameen.