SECOND REMINDER. Yaumul Jumuat, 7th day of Jumaadal Aakhir (Friday, 23rd February). BOY/GIRL RELATIONSHIP, THE HIDDEN HARD TRUTH. BismilLah. Let's continue from the first reminder; Be mindful of ALLAH in all your affairs and at the time you talk to each other. Know that you both are under ALLAH’S watch and beware that there shall be a day for reckoning. As soon as you are satisfied with each other’s behavior, then go ahead and get married. Involve family members in all you do. Introduce him or her to your family and leave all affairs to ALLAH. Never be alone with her or him without an adult relative. Never be romantic with each other till the mahar is paid. Some young Muslim men and women feel shy or find it hard to tell family members this is the man/woman I would want to make a wife or husband. They however, don’t find it hard that Allah is aware of each chat they make, each text messages they exchange and each thought of love they entertain in their hearts. If you find it hard to go ahead and knock for marriage, then am afraid you don’t shy Allah subhanahu wa ta’aala. I trust you know what Allah is equally capable of doing, here on earth and hereafter. The fact is that, you don’t need to gather a lot of MATERIALS to be able to get married. If you really want to be under Allah’s immense Rahmah and favour, then start the process of marriage. I am a living testimony to that and I believe a lot of other people can attest to that fact. So just don’t get influenced by shaitan. My dear sister, please encourage the young man to come and knock if indeed he’s dating for the sake of Allah. And my dear brother, please go ahead and knock if only you don’t want to be under the anger of Allah. Don't prolong the research process in getting to know each other. The longer it takes the easier satan get to damage the Marriage process and influence both into haraam dating. To be continued in Shaa ALLAH. May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect us from any satanic influences. Aameen.