SECOND REMINDER: Yaumul Ahad, 11th day of Jumaadal Uulaa/Awwal. (Sunday, 28th January). lHARAAM RELATIONSHIPS IN SCHOOLS, COLLEGES AND UNIVERSITIES IN THE NAME PLANNING TO MARRY MUST STOP FOR ALLAH SAKE. MY HUMBLE ADVICE TO ALL STUDENTS. BISMILLAH. Let's continue from the first Reminder; Are you ready for marriage Whilest in school or under apprenticeship? If not then why even think of dating instead of concentrating on studies or your handiwork? As Muslims we must know that our downfall, or hardship in life is due to our disobedience in Allah and His Messenger. The Rahmah/ blessings of Allah is like electric switch, it's there all the time, we just need to switch it on for the lights. If we disobey Allah we distance ourselves from the blessings and guidance of Allah. Let me concentrate on men this afternoon as my focus in the morning was on women. As a student or learner of any handiwork, your focus should be to study hard with concentration seeking Allah's help through your efforts, don't think of any woman, don't think of future wife, concentrate on why you are there. Don't waste your little savings for your upkeep on pleasing women bcs she will need a smartphone, credit to chat and talk, you are a student how do you finance that? Stress can destruct us from studies, she has her problems but you cannot be her answer, encourage her to rely on Allah and if she desperately need support and you can help then help her for Allah sake. Since you are not ready for marriage then wait till you are ready then start looking for the religious sister who can help teach your future kids with morals of Islam so that they can be Sadaqatul Jaariya for you even in your grave. Let's try and help our sisters through advices and stop exploiting their weaknesses into haraam activities. May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect our offspring from my satanic influences. Ameen