THIRD REMINDER. Wednesday. We CONTINUE ON OUR LESSON ON CAUSES of DIVORCE in TODAY'S YOUTH. Bismillah
Another serious causes of divorce is impatience and Mistrust between couples. It's very important to trust each other and be patient with each other. Both must know that Satan will do all he can to create some misunderstanding. Knowing both married to help each other to Paradise means both must be extremely patient. A sister told me how she was impatient and stupidly lost her husband. She saw a lovely text from her husband phone and since that moment instead of patiently asking the husband what that message was about, she became upset and became rude to her husband till the husband divorced her for her change of attitude. When elders came in to resolve the issue she then told them how her attitude started then the husband noticed how Satan has influenced her. Basically the husband gave his phone to his work colleague whose phone has run out of battery. The friend sent a text to his wife saying *Sweetheart, I will be with you soon, don't try calling my battery is dead, I love you babe*. This sister thought her husband sent it to his girlfriend and started behaving strange to the husband for months without telling him why. That's how easily Satan damages marriages without trust and patience.
We must also avoid music at home and adopt loving QUR'AN recitations and listening to Islamic lectures. Satan fears to enter such homes where QUR'AN is been recited regularly. We must avoid complaints about our spouse to our parents. We must avoid allowing our brothers living around our wives or visiting our wives without our presence. We must avoid any abusive language and respect each other. We must be patient when she is not conceiving bcs only Allah Grant children not by her wish. Let's always be aware of Satan's plot on our marriage and avoid provoking each other.
We ask Allah to aid us in making the right choice and protect our choices from any satanic influences. Aameen.
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