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SECOND REMINDER. Wednesday. We CONTINUE ON OUR LESSON ON CAUSES of DIVORCE in TODAY'S YOUTH. Bismillah Let's continue from the first reminder. Choosing rightful partner is the first step to avoid falling into divorce mode after marriage. When you want to choose your spouse, you may choose them for their wealth, family's way of life, beauty or piety. Our Beloved Prophet (PBUH) said: "Fortunate are those who choose their spouse for their piety and godliness". Choose your spouse from Practicing Muslim families that's Muslims who care for their children and bring them up the Islamic way. If the parents of the person you want to marry are religious innovators or love visiting source Sayers/ fortune tellers, then you are making the first serious error in marrying from such home unless if you can get the sister to enroll into learning the deen well before the marriage. Seek recommendation from Learned Imams and Islamic teachers on anyone who approach you for marriage or when you are ready for marriage. Finding your spouse in a bar, a dance floor, beach, dating websites, on Facebook, WhatsApp etc may bring you pain and suffering for the rest of your life even though few maybe lucky to meet good moral partners. But majority of broken marriages is bcs of how wrongly the choice was made. Some even ignoring their parents advise to marry without the parents support SubhaanAllah, that's a marriage on timed bomb bcs if you ignore your parents bcs of a brother or sister then note that this same partner will accuse your parents of witch-hunting on your marriage as soon as little difficulties arises and then divorce you painfully without you been able to easily go back to your parents you ignored for him or her. To be continued in Shaa Allah. May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect our marriages from any satanic influences. Aameen.

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