SECOND REMINDER. Sunday. MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS. BismilLah. Let's continue with our topic from the first Reminder. Please request for a copy if you couldn't receive the first Reminder or visit We are advised as married couple not to respond to criticism with more arguments and stubbornness from the other half, because this will put more strain on the connection between you, which can easily break the Marriage because of that. Being more easy-going and diplomatic is something that is required from both parties. It is required from the husband, in the form of kindness, overlooking mistakes and showing compassion, and it is required from the religiously committed, smart and wise wife to put up with the annoyance of her husband, and not to be so harsh with him if he is harsh with you; rather you should be easy-going, as much as you can, avoid provoking his anger and not be confrontational. You should be as gentle as you can, and be soft with him. As the saying goes, beyond every successful married man is a good wife. Allah blessings and love is upon the one who become patient whenever there is any confrontation between the two couple. Sheitan is the companion of the one who remain argumentative within the Marriage. Our children easily grow with such such bad attitude of the Parents and later becomes rebellious as I mentioned in yesterday's Reminders. Raising children is an act worship as such we must do it with knowledge, patience and with Taqwa(fear of Allah) as we are accountable to that. To be continued in Shaa Allah. May Allah keep guiding us all and protect our Marriages from any satanic influences. Aameen.