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FIRST REMINDER. Sunday. 9th day of SAFAR. MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS. BismilLah. Undoubtedly a great deal of criticism and arguing in front of the children is something negative that undermines harmony, love and damages the children's mind set. Married couple must reduce that as much as possible, and to show restraint; each of you should force himself to be patient with the other and to delay issues of arguments and discussion until you are by yourselves. Our Beloved messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wasallam has advised that we must avoid arguing even if we are at the right side of the story. Argument is a tool which sheitan uses to damage relationship which is the number one priority of sheitan. Any human being COULD NOT be free of faults or shortcomings, because that is part of human nature, especially women, whose basic nature the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) has told us about, and said that there is no hope of changing her nature completely. It was narrated from Samurah ibn Jundub that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman was created from a rib; if you try to straighten her you will break her. So be kind to her and you will live with ease with her.” Narrated by Ahmad (20093) and Ibn Hibbaan (4178); classed as saheeh by our Sheikh al-Albaani. Children can be fitnah in our lives OR sadaqatul Jaariya for us when we die only if we gave them good Islamic upbringing. To be continued in Shaa Allah. May ALLAH keep guiding our eemaan and protect our Marriages from any satanic influences. Aameen.

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