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FIRST REMINDER: Thursday. 29th day of Muharram 1439. SOME RECOMMENDED WAYS TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE. SHARE TO OTHERS PLEASE. BismilLah. Fear Allah: It was the noble practice of Nabi salallahu alayhi wasallam to remind the spouses about the fear for Allah before performing a Nikah by reciting the verses (Nisa v14, Ahzab v69, Aali-Imraan v101) from the Quraan. All the verses are common in the message of Taqwa (fear of Allah). The spouses will be first committed to Allah before being committed to their partner. There can be no doubt in the success of a marriage governed by the fear of Allah. Unfortunately, today we choose spouses based on their beauty, success in dunya etc without any risk assessment of their eemaan or practicing nature. If you base your choice with such mentality, you have no one to blame later but yourself. Lot's of Brothers and sisters are facing the troubles of such choices today. Ensure you enroll your wife into full time or part Madarasah if you notice her level of Islamic knowledge is weak else you've just married fitnah to your home bcs a wife without eemaan due to the fact that her islamic knowledge is weak is like buying snake to your home as pet. It's a vice versa but wives in particular bcs a successful home comes from a wife full of eemaan and there can't be true eemaan without Islamic knowledge, that's what Allah says not me. Allah says in the Qur'an; “It is only those who have knowledge among His slaves that fear Allaah*”[Faatir 35:28]. So if you marry a brother or sister who has no islamic knowledge good enough to help you, then you've risk your future investment in regards to your sadaqatul Jaariya in children that Allah blesses both with. Another point to consider is Never be angry at the same time*: Anger is the root cause for all marital disputes. One Sahaabi or companion came to Rasulullah salallahu alayhi wasallam and sought some advice. Rasulullah salallahu alayhi wasallam replied, control your anger. The same advice was rendered three times. So let's exercise patience as Allah love those who are patient especially if they are right. To be continued in Shaa Allah. May Allah keep guiding our Marriages and bless our single brothers and sisters to successful marriage. Aameen.

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