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THIRD REMINDER. Saturday. COMPARATIVE ANALYSIS BETWEEN WIVES OF TODAY AND THOSE OF YESTERDAY. BismilLah I got these analyses yesterday from one of my contacts and feel it's worth re-sharing. (1). Yesterday's Wives: "Welcome my husband, hope the office was not stressful, your favourite food is ready, let me lead you to the bathroom first, then you take your dinner, you look so tired, I am sure you'll be okay after eating your dinner. Welcome my one and only." Today's Wives: "Please don't put unecessary pressure on me, you can go to the fridge pick up the stew, microwave it and boil the remaining rice, I am your wife and not your cook." (2). Yesterday's Wives:"Darling, stop thinking about our lack of money. It's going to be temporary. God will see us through and we are going to come out of it stronger. After all we can still feed ourselves and the children. We need to give the Almighty that glory. I am with you through thick and thin, my husband, the owner of my dowry." Today's Wives: "Look, I am sick and tired of living in this abject poverty with you. Why did you bring me to your house when you know that you are not ready for marriage? Every day it's one complaint or the other. Your friends have all these things going for them. Why don't you get a loan? Look, if you don't find solutions to your problems, I will go back to my parents' house." (3). Yesterday's Wives: "My husband, take heart and don't worry. I shall go with you to Asankregwa. You are being transfered from head office in Accra, it might be a blessing in disguise. We shall take advantage of the agricultural opportunities of the rich and fertile area to advance our well being and self-sustenance. Some disappointments could be a blessing." Today's Wives: Asenke....what?? Me I can't follow you to that place. What language do people even speak in Asenkregwa...Will our kids get friends? Puleeeasee.....coffee shops, cinemas, hello? From Accra to Asankregwa? I can't cope with such a demotion. To start living in a remote village. You had better look for another job or you're going alone. We need to pray for today's wives. May Allah aid our sisters to be like yesterday's wives. Aameen.

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