DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaumul Ahad, 27th day of Rabeeul Awwal (Sunday 24th of November, 2019).
MY PERSONAL ADVICE TO ALL NEWLY MARRIED OR EVEN THOSE WHO INTEND TO MARRY SOON. BismilLah.
First of all I pray that ALLAH aid you in making the right choice of who to marry and for those who are already married may ALLAH protect the marriage from any satanic influences. Aameen.
Secondly pls note that marriage is a trust from ALLAH, for companionship, an act of worship etc as such your priorities in the marriage is first to please ALLAH then secondly your husband or wife. If you make ur priority to please ALLAH you will not be worried much in all the aps and downs in the marriage. Patience must be your key in all you do. Make it a rule over urself that you will accept any accusations from your husband or wife and apologise even if you are right bcs the number one priority of sheitan is to create mess in marriages through arguments and remember the rewards of whoever avoid arguments as assurance from ALLAH even if he or she is right, reward is a house in Jannah, ALLAHU AKBAR. You must avoid complains to any of your families, friends and his or her family. Do not sell your marriage issues to anyone except learned Muslim with eemaan who don't know him or her or any of the family just to seek advice not to sell the marriage issues to him or her. You can pretend its happening to your friend and he or she needs advice. Learn to say I'm sorry darling especially if you notice he or she is angry about something unnecessary. You must never call him or her by his name but rather choose sweet words like darling, Princess, honey, sweetheart, my love etc as the Prophet sallalLaahu Alaihi Wasallam used to call our Mother Aaa-ish.
For my sisters in particular, Never do anything or buy anything without suggesting to him first even if it's ur money. Always encourage him to do something do not command him. Make sure you are always well dressed at home with perfume, and make sure your mouth is always clean and smell nice. Never raise your voice over him on anything even if he is wrong. Ask for his favourite food and always cook what he prefer. Eat with him. Bath with him. Encourage him to join you in kitchen and chat with you even if not helping with the cooking. Pray for him regularly. Send him messages regularly when he is away telling him to come home quick after work as you are missing him. Note that there is no single human being who is perfect from any imperfection as such learn from each others shortcomings and always blame sheitan as the enemy of the marriage and motivate each other into more Islamic activities at home such as Quran recitation and listening, lots of zikir in the house not music and talking unnecessarily. You can ask any questions in regards to marriage and will do my best in shaa ALLAH. Try to go through this link to learn more about marriage. http://www.islaam.net/main/display.php?part=26&category=116&id=891
May ALLAH, AL-HAKAM (The One and Only true Judge and always delivers justice in every situation) keep guiding our marriages and protect it from any satanic influences. Aameen.
MY PERSONAL ADVICE TO ALL NEWLY MARRIED OR EVEN THOSE WHO INTEND TO MARRY SOON. BismilLah.
First of all I pray that ALLAH aid you in making the right choice of who to marry and for those who are already married may ALLAH protect the marriage from any satanic influences. Aameen.
Secondly pls note that marriage is a trust from ALLAH, for companionship, an act of worship etc as such your priorities in the marriage is first to please ALLAH then secondly your husband or wife. If you make ur priority to please ALLAH you will not be worried much in all the aps and downs in the marriage. Patience must be your key in all you do. Make it a rule over urself that you will accept any accusations from your husband or wife and apologise even if you are right bcs the number one priority of sheitan is to create mess in marriages through arguments and remember the rewards of whoever avoid arguments as assurance from ALLAH even if he or she is right, reward is a house in Jannah, ALLAHU AKBAR. You must avoid complains to any of your families, friends and his or her family. Do not sell your marriage issues to anyone except learned Muslim with eemaan who don't know him or her or any of the family just to seek advice not to sell the marriage issues to him or her. You can pretend its happening to your friend and he or she needs advice. Learn to say I'm sorry darling especially if you notice he or she is angry about something unnecessary. You must never call him or her by his name but rather choose sweet words like darling, Princess, honey, sweetheart, my love etc as the Prophet sallalLaahu Alaihi Wasallam used to call our Mother Aaa-ish.
For my sisters in particular, Never do anything or buy anything without suggesting to him first even if it's ur money. Always encourage him to do something do not command him. Make sure you are always well dressed at home with perfume, and make sure your mouth is always clean and smell nice. Never raise your voice over him on anything even if he is wrong. Ask for his favourite food and always cook what he prefer. Eat with him. Bath with him. Encourage him to join you in kitchen and chat with you even if not helping with the cooking. Pray for him regularly. Send him messages regularly when he is away telling him to come home quick after work as you are missing him. Note that there is no single human being who is perfect from any imperfection as such learn from each others shortcomings and always blame sheitan as the enemy of the marriage and motivate each other into more Islamic activities at home such as Quran recitation and listening, lots of zikir in the house not music and talking unnecessarily. You can ask any questions in regards to marriage and will do my best in shaa ALLAH. Try to go through this link to learn more about marriage. http://www.islaam.net/main/display.php?part=26&category=116&id=891
May ALLAH, AL-HAKAM (The One and Only true Judge and always delivers justice in every situation) keep guiding our marriages and protect it from any satanic influences. Aameen.
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