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THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaumul Ahad, 6th day of Muharram 1440, (Sunday 16th September, 2018). MARRYING CHRISTIAN WOMEN IN ISLAM. BismilLahir Rahmaanir Raheem. Even though ALLAH has permitted Muslim men to marry Good mannered virgin Christians and forbade Muslim women marrying Christian men, almost all scholars discourage this act because Marriage and children should be planned for Allah sake and Allah warned us not to marry mushriks and all Christians today have corrupted their eemaan in ALLAH by their belief of Jesus Christ alaihi salaam as son of ALLAH or part of ALLAH as such are mushriks who can't be married similarly to a Muslim invalidating his or her shahaadah by similar belief system. Imaging dying before her. What happened to your children you are hopping to be praying for you? This kind of marriage has lots of problems that many Muslim men are suffering already so don't gamble your life this way. Allah says in the Quran, "And do not marry Al-Mushrikaat (idolatresses) till they believe (worship Allaah Alone). And indeed a slave woman who believes is better than a (free) Mushrikah (idolatress), even though she pleases you”[al-Baqarah 2:221]. A mushrika is a disbeliever of Allah and His messenger. All none Muslims today worship one way or the other without believing in The prophet and the Christians of today are all idol worshipers as they associiate Issah alaihi salaam with Allah and that's the sad reality and a fact as such invalidate their title of ahlul kitaab. Ibn 'Umar who was one of the companions of the PROPHET sallallahu alaihi wasallam was asked about marrying a Christian lady or a Jewess, he would say: "Allah has made it unlawful for the believers to marry ladies who ascribe partners in worship to Allah, and I do not know of a greater thing, as regards to ascribing partners in worship to Allah, than a lady who says that Jesus is her Lord although he is just one of Allah's slaves." Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 209. Is this proof not enough? Then read ahead. Personally, I believe Christianity doesn't exist anymore as Allah abrogated it during the last moments of the Prophet when Allah Said today I have perfected your deen for you, completed my favour on you and chosen for you Islam. Whoever chooses any religion other than Islam will not be accepted meaning no more Christianity as such since then mankind must accept only Islam or disbelief in it and we cannot marry a disbeliever. Secondly, what's the purpose of Marriage according to sunnah of the Prophet? To fulfil our sexual desires and more importantly give birth to more Muslim children so that this ummah will grow well and these children if taking good care of becomes sadaqa for us when we die so logically why do you want to marry a Christian knowing one day you may die before her and your children stand the risk of been deviated into Christianity. Experience has also shown that such marriage never easily work well as she will never allow you to add a Muslim wife or marry a second wife due to their church ideology. Such marriages always become a home of misunderstanding and fighting base on so many issues from what to eat, eid occasions issues, dressing the house with haraam things, haraam music, not able to play Quran recitations and many many more so why risk in the first place due to so called love whiles there are millions of Muslim women despirate to marry. Will you then blame Muslim sisters marrying Christians? May ALLAH protect us from any satanic influences. Aameen.

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