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FIRST REMINDER. Yaum Ar-Raaba'ā, 13th day of Shawwal (Wednesday, 27th June). CARING FOR OUR WIVES MUST BE A PRIORITY OF EVERY HUSBAND. Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem. Marriage in Islam is a covenant or contract between us and ALLAH as such we will be accountable to ALLAH as to how we handled someone's daughter we went for by accepting to cater for her as instructed by ALLAH and HIS Messenger. The husband has to treat his wife in a good and kind manner, and to spend on her food, drink, clothing and accommodation, because ALLAH says in the QUR'AN; “and live with them honourably (the wives)”[al-Nisa 4:19]. How do you honour an important guest to your home? Our wives deserve better than that. ALLAH says in the QUR'AN; “And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And ALLAH is All-Mighty, All-Wise” [al-Baqarah 2:228]. Marrying someone's daughter means you've accepted to cater for her needs as such by doing so, you are rewarded by ALLAH as sadaqah. Even sexual relationship within the marriage are recorded as sadaqah for both as such let's ignore whatever errors that arrises from the wife and concentrate in caring for her honorably with intention to gain the blessings of ALLAH. To be continued in Shaa ALLAH. May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect our marriages from any satanic influences. Aameen.

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