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THIRD REMINDER. Monday. TREATMENT OF WOMEN IN ISLAM continues. BismilLaahir Rahmaanir Raheem. Our beloved Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and his family thought us how to handle immoral wife by saying: I enjoin you to treat women well, for they are like captives in your hand. Verily, you may not treat them otherwise unless they commit flagrant immorality. If they do so, then you may separate from their beds and strike them without causing pain but if they return to good conduct, then you may do nothing against them. You have rights over your wives and they have rights over you. Your right is that they will not allow anyone you dislike to enter your home, and their right is that you should treat them well regarding food and clothing. Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1163. To strike her is not to beat her as some ignorance interpret it. Scholars gave example as using miswaak (tooth stick) to hit your child for his or attention to you. The Prophet never hit any of his wives so let's follow the sunnah. The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and his family, said: The most complete of the believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women. Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162. May Allah aid us to apply the teachings of Allah and His Messenger in our ways of daily life. Aameen.

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