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THIRD REMINDER. Saturday. WHY SOME CHILDREN REBEL AGAINST THEIR PARENTS AND HOW DO WE DEAL WITH SUCH CHILDREN? BismilLah. Let's conclude on our topic above today; For my newly married brothers and sisters or those yet to marry, please note that Marriage is a covenant between us and Allah or a trust on us and we will be accountable for how we managed it. Let's study how the Prophet and his companions managed their lives if we want to be successful. Let's make choices based on the person's eemaan or practicing nature. Let's study the deen ourselves and enroll our wives into islamic studies. Let's implement patience in our marriage. Shouting and unnecessary anger aid the children to learn from our bad attitude. Let's make the recommended dua before making sunnah with our partners. Ibn 'Abbas (RA) reported: "The Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said, 'If you say the following invocation during sexual intercourse, and a baby is conceived, Satan would never harm that baby." Allahu Akbar. Say: Bismillah. Allahumma jannibnash-shaytan wa jannibi-shaytan ma razaqtana. Meaning O Allah! Keep us away from Satan, and keep Satan away from any blessing you bestow on us. Al-Bukhari (Fath Al-Bari: 1/291) and Muslim. To learn how to recite it well please visit this link. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=suc6iG3JqSU Let's also make Dua regularly for our offspring such as Rabbana Hab lana Min azwaajinaa wa zurriyaatinaa qurrata a’ayunil waj’alnaa lilmuttaqeena imaama. “Oh our Rabb! Make our children the coolness of our eyes and appoint a leader for us from among the pious ones. Also *Rabbijal’nee muqeema salaati, wa min Dhurriyyatee, Rabbanaa wataqabbal duaa” O my Lord! make me one who establishes regular Prayer, and also (raise such) among my offspring  O our Lord! and accept Thou my Prayer QUR'AN 14:40. May Allah keep guiding us all and aid us to raise our children in a way that will protect them from been rebellious. Aameen.

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