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SECOND REMINDER. Friday. Sunnah making during her Menstruation continues. BismilLaah. Dr. al-Baar thinks that the harm is not limited to what he describes of the introduction of germs into the uterus and vagina which is difficult to treat, rather it also extends to other things, which will be discussed in the evening Reminder: Let's avoid whatever Allah says is forbidden for our own good. Don't listen to some inexperienced doctors who advice Sisters to meet with their husbands during their menses to enhance pregnancy, please note that Allah does not put any blessings into things HE has forbidden us. Some dangers we put ourselves when we make sunnah with our wives in their menses include; 1. The spread of infection to the fallopian tubes, which may then become blocked, which in turn may lead to infertility or ectopic pregnancy, which is the most dangerous kind of pregnancy. 2. The spread of infection to the urethra, bladder and kidneys; diseases of the urinary tract are usually serious and chronic. 3. Increase of germs in the menstrual blood, especially gonorrhea germs. The menstruating woman is also in a physical and psychological state that is not conducive to intercourse, so if it takes place it will harm her a great deal and cause her pains during her period, as Dr. al-Baar said: 1. Menstruation is accompanied by pains, the severity of which varies from one woman to another. Most women experience pains in the back and lower abdomen. For some women the pain is unbearable and has to be treated with medication and painkillers. So why are you adding injuries into wounds? 2. Many woman suffer depression and stress during their period, especially at the beginning, and their mental and intellectual state is at the lowest level during menstruation. 3. Some women suffer migraines just before their period starts, and the pain is severe and causes visual disturbances and vomiting. 4. Women’s sexual desire decreases, and many woman have no interest at all in sex during their periods. The entire reproductive system is in a state that is akin to sickness, so intercourse at this time is not natural and serves no purpose, rather it can cause a great deal of harm. 5. A woman’s temperature drops during menstruation, as does her pulse and blood pressure, which makes her feel dizzy, exhausted and lethargic. To be continued in Shaa Allah. May Allah protect us from any disobedience to HIS rules. Aameen.

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