FIRST REMINDER. Monday 23rd day of Shawwaal. Tips for the Married Couple. Those planning marriage can also benefit from these tips. Share to any group please. BismilLahir Rahmaanir Raheem. Marriages usually start off so nicely. Everyone cooperates-the couple, their parents, other relatives, friends. Things usually run smoothly. But somewhere along the way, marital disputes pop up. This is of course natural, but these can escalate to dangerous levels if not dealt with correctly. We will be discussing Some problems on today's reminders and provide some tips on how to deal with them in shaa. 1. Issues of Money: Couples argue over many things but money is by far one of the most frequent and serious issue. The solution is to discuss issues openly and consult within the family. For instance, the issue of a wife working outside the home can become a contentious one. This should preferably be discussed before marriage contract is agreed. Also, if she does decide to work and the husband agrees, does she want to contribute a certain portion to household expenses or will she keep all of the money for herself (which is her right Islamically anyway). One of the ways to avoid arguments about money is to simply make an easy budget which tracks expenses, income, investments, and establishes a framework for taking care of regular family necessities. It's important to plan all these before marriage or just after the marriage to ensure sheitan doesn't interfere in the marriage. This mostly happens to couples abroad. The best solution is for the wife to support voluntarily a fix amount agreed by boss based on her income so as to avoid any unnecessary arguments at home. If the wife decide not to work, that's her Islamic right as such it must be discussed before or just after the marriage. To be continued in shaa Allah. May Allah protect our marriages from any satanic Aameen